The Seven Realms of Love

The First Realm of Love – The Bodily Realm

I really like you. I Love the look of you. I’ve bought to have you ever in my life. I am unable to reside with out you. I’m determined for you. You might be every thing I’ve dreamed and extra. I’m aroused by you, and subsequently, can’t reside with out you. You might be excellent. I’m yours and you might be mine. You haven’t any fault. I can’t consider any motive that our love won’t final. I wish to personal you, marry you, posses you. I surrender my life for you. I’m infatuated with you.

I do know that is extremely charged. I’m blinded by this love. I’ll throw away my goals, my passions and my ambitions simply to be with you. I additionally know, as folks have warned me, that this love, this ardour, this hearth is unsustainable, however I’m blind. I’m blinded by my emotion and the chemistry that rushes via my veins. I’ve been warned, however my life was hell earlier than I met you, and now it’s heaven. Oh, even for simply this someday, this love, this hearth, this mindlessness, is price it.

The eagerness is bodily, the drives are uncontrollable. The issue is that it could possibly’t final, it is life shattering when it breaks and there’s actually no strategy to keep away from it. That is the bottom most primal stage of affection and subsequently probably the most excessive.

The second realm of Love – My thoughts

I really like you. I believe such as you. Our goals are so comparable. I consider what you consider and I believe what you suppose. I do know we’re proper in our lifestyle. We’re on widespread floor, we reside to this code, and this code is ours. We agree, we like the identical work, we like the identical holidays. We’re of the identical thoughts, we’re in love.

I’ve informed those who they need to be such as you. They need to be good and they need to be completely satisfied. I’ve informed brothers and family and friends what they need to be doing. Now I’ve met you, there is no such thing as a want, as a result of we agree. We agree the world must be as we dream it must be.

This stage of affection is so mental. It’s based mostly on beliefs. When you match my image I really like you, should you do not I hate you. That is non secular love. Righteous and conditional. There are such a lot of expectations at this stage one of many two companions needs to be submissive and subsequently inevitably develop into resentful. That is the standard, western, good citizen, relationship. An ideal lie.

The third realm of affection – Emotion

I really like you. I cry on the considered you. I write these poems of affection for you; poems that specific this romance, this magnificence, this sense so deep inside me. From the second I met you I knew I liked you. I felt it deep in my core. I’m unhappy with out you, I’m offended if I am unable to be with you. I really feel good round you, you make me completely satisfied, I would like you close to me on a regular basis as a result of it makes me really feel so good, I want you in my life.

You might be my solar, my morning, my each breath. You’re the dew on my pores and skin and the solar in my coronary heart. I breathe you, and these roses, this present, this meal, this wine, this contact in your shoulder, sends shivers down my backbone. I maintain your {photograph} near my coronary heart and I have a good time you with happiness. I wait on your name.

I’m sorry for my response if you got here dwelling late. I’m sorry for being offended. I am unable to assist it. I really feel so fantastic and I really feel so weak. I really feel you once I stroll. Oh my love, might this sense, this romance, final eternally between us. I’m sorry about these swings in my temper. They’re completely unexplainable. Oh, my love, be mine eternally.

The enjoyment is uncontrollable, the give up is full, the love feels merged and soulful. This stage of affection is mesmerizing. Two lovers will fall into every others arms and the romance is fantastic. Nice holidays and nice concept, nice romantic nights and extra. Nevertheless, emotion has no substance. The identical emotion that will get a pair into this love, is identical emotion that burns them out, or attracts them to others. Emotional folks can’t maintain integrity. Feelings are environmental reactions. By no means belief emotion. (or emotional folks)

The forth realm of affection – The guts

I really like you. Whether or not you come or go in my life, I really like you. Irrespective of whether or not you might be properly or sick, for higher, for worse, for richer or poorer, all the times of my life. I’ll love you. I’ll love you it doesn’t matter what occurs. I’ll love you. I do know I really like you. You and I are in love. It’s future, we’re mates for all times, I really like you.

I would like you to be completely satisfied my love. Sure, why do not you journey and see the world. Why not transfer to Africa and work, I’ll all the time be right here for you. I would like the household to be completely satisfied. I care a lot for you. I wish to maintain you shut, maintain you heat. I would like your life to be fantastic, and much more fantastic due to me.

I’m completely satisfied that you’re transferring on from me. Sure, we’re shut mates. We’ve got achieved an exquisite depth to our love, a lot so, that you just really feel like my sister, or brother or one thing. I would like you to be completely satisfied, and our friendship is significant. We are able to work collectively, be mates collectively eternally.

I’m a bit sorry that the romance went out of our relationship. That we’re such fantastic mates is superb, however I actually hoped that we’d keep passionate. We grew away from that zeal we had once we first met. Perhaps we should always have spent extra time taking part in. I really like you all the time, my love and my pal, eternally.

The fantastic thing about this love is that it’s honoring. It honors individuality. It honors self, this love is predicated on independence. It’s the area of the damage, the afraid, the self created ego grasp who claims non secular or self actualization. Folks on this stage of affection are eternally lonely, regardless of being satisfied they’re able to love, unconditionally. Right here there’s merely no give up.

The Fifth realm of affection – Devotion

I really like you. Deep in my coronary heart I’ve recognized that someday I’d discover you. I knew that there was a lover, someplace, whose life mission, whose life ardour would weave with mine to create one thing magnificent on this earth. We’re like two musicians whose life objective aside is quadrupled in worth collectively.

We are going to serve our mission in life collectively. You carry items and I carry items and with these collectively, our highest calling will likely be to share these with the world. I really like you deeply; I have a good time all of the 4 realms of affection with you, and now, this, our objective in life.

That is greater than me, that is greater than you, that is sacred, our objective collectively. We are able to do what we love in life and share that journey collectively. Thanks for opening your coronary heart and your life for me. We’re sure collectively by greater than a contract of intimacy and love; we’re sure by our dedication to one thing greater than each of us. I dedicate my like to you, I do know on this manner we’ll give what we’re born to present. My love is everlasting, thanks.

This relationship seems to lack the bodily grunt and pump of the infatuated lovers. However these two folks love one another as a result of they reside and work and share the journey of life collectively. They have to be cautious to ensure they do not drift via life and neglect these decrease ranges of affection which are required as a basis for this one.

The Sixth realm of affection – Impressed

I really like you. Oh stillness of the evening, let my thoughts be calm, my soul be content material, let my love develop into one with yours. We have been two, we’re one. We bind in any respect ranges, from the bodily and romantic to the emotional and implausible. However most of all, we bind in mild.

I stroll with you, irrespective of the place you go. I sleep with you it doesn’t matter what you already know. I’m with you, all the time, awake or asleep; that is my everlasting love. Greater than a pledge, it’s actual. I do know your breath, I do know your coronary heart. I’m not away, I’m in your thought, in your realm, we’re one, and we’re sure.

Know me my love and you’ll know you. Dive every day via the emotion and problem and anytime you select, one can find me. Select love and I’m right here. It’s one step past, but extra actual than they know. Let me maintain you with out arms, let me contact you with out sound, see me with out eyes, I’m you, we’re one, in love.

There isn’t any me, I otherwise you on this stage of affection. It’s a uncommon relationship that reaches this stage. Too many distractions, drawn all the way down to decrease realms by the ego, by the concern and seek for God. This stage of affection is just for these able to throw themselves into one thing sacred, and make their relationship the head of their non secular and spiritual journey. Spiritual and guru worshiping folks can’t attain this stage of affection in relationship.

The Seventh Realm – Unconditional love

I really like you. Vacancy. I can’t know time. I really like you. Vacancy. I can’t know house. You aren’t in type, though I do know your love. You aren’t in sound, though I hear your name. We’re one soul, one love, one now.

Past the realms the place voices converse, we’re sure extra sturdy than lovers who weep. We sit with out thoughts; we sit in that point and we all know one another. I do know you once I see mountains so excessive, a lake so nonetheless, a wind so sort. I do know you when nature jogs my memory, I’m liked, I’m liked, I’m liked.

I look to the celebrities and there you might be. I look to the moon; it is not thus far. I look into nothing, to the great thing about all, and there you might be, not thus far in any respect. Invisible one, I can see you in the great thing about the only world. By no means thus far. By no means thus far.

The third thoughts, the soul, the human spirit is aware of no sense of self, different, proper or unsuitable. It’s mesmerized by the great thing about existence and therefore it’s past the boundary of distraction. The glimpse of the infinite is discovered on this realm of affection. Lovers rise for seconds to this place in orgasm. The sacred relationship holds that because it’s most potent reality.

Synopsis of Chapter in Sacred Love, a e-book about relationships that final eternally.


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